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|Counselling Skills Workshop|
The context is a small multidisciplinary group of managers. This group has expressed interest particularly in learning counselling skills as an aid to the development of subordinates and in a wider context.
In our discussions we agreed that counselling skills could have a wider utility for managers. The move from a 'vertical' to a 'flat' management structure increased the need for the manager to develop his/her people. A counselling approach is important here, especially when the manager can not be a technical expert in the subordinates' area.
Helping people learn and develop is a key part of the manager's task.
Counselling is a helping art and a science. It cannot be learned without personal involvement and practice. There are some basic building blocks (listening, questioning, and suspending judgement) which must be learned and understood first. It is impossible to understand or value counselling fully without being counselled. It requires high trust and people learn it best in a trusting and confidential atmosphere.
Introduction, welcome, objectives, atmosphere and norms (listening, support, learning from each other, sharing experiences), confidentiality, feedback.
Circle-Name, what you do, something that is going well
Brief about listening, and then go around group "What do you want from the course, any reservations?"
List wants, respond to reservations show they will get their wants. Outline programme.
Review listening briefly; explain it is a crucial part of helping people help themselves (counselling).
Pairs 15-min each way. Listening practice on a subject chosen by the talker. This can be more on what s(he) wants from course, a little worry, his/her situation, a happy memory or what it is like to work in the team. Focus is on the listening. The listener should be there for the talker, get inside the talkers skin, imagine what it might feel like, pay attention, encourage "go on" etc., do not distract.
Review listening practice, what do effective listeners do, what is the effect, what is it like to be understood?
What is counselling and how does it work? One form of helping, the counselling model, the importance of accepting and releasing feelings, listening to everything. The usefulness and context of counselling in your work place. The limits of counselling with finite skill and resources
Demonstration of counselling skills with course member
Review of demonstration
Practice sessions in pairs. Client works on real issue, counsellor focuses initially on helping client get a deep understanding of the issue, tries not to rush to solve it.
Review of practice
Review of day
Circle-One thing you will contribute today, one thing you want from today.
Further counselling theory. E.g. The importance of deciding to do something as a way of dealing with powerlessness. How people get stuck and unstuck.
Counselling practice in small group(s). In the counselling practice each person has time as client, counsellor and observer. People choose their own subject. They have the option of talking about how to help or develop a member or group of their staff if they wish. If additional theory or technique is required it will be offered. After each session there is a review of the process.
Coaching is different from counselling, as both parties need listening-skills. What do good coaches do? Experience Transfer. Brief practice of coaching skills in pairs.
Pairs. What have we learned so far and how can we apply it to work?
Share results. Deal with any unfinished business.
Senior manager's long term evaluation
The course was extremely worthwhile. We developed the listening and counselling skills that are essential for today's managers. The process also built relationships in our management team.
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