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People and groups in organisations often hold differing views but still need each other's co-operation. They may differ about: -
Good managers manage these conflicts when they interfere with the achievement of the organisation's mission. They work to clarify goals, then roles, and then procedures. Most interpersonal issues disappear when the goals, roles and procedures are clear.
When in a conflict, listen, summarise the other's position and express your own thoughts and feelings clearly and directly. Use short sentences that start "I ....". If you manage two people who are in conflict, help them listen to each other and create their own solution. This is much more likely to stick than one you impose.
Styles of conflict handling
In any conflict situation, think about the relationship between the parties and the importance of the issue to you. The style you adopt will depend on the balance between these factors.
People often prefer to use some styles more than others. However, each situation may require a different style. You can use all of them as required.
For further reading , "Caring enough to Confront" by David Augsberger, ISBN 0-8307-0733-6, 1981 is very good.
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